Evolving Your Intimate Life in Perimenopause and Beyond
Reclaim your right to feel turned on by life, sensuality, and your own truth.
When a woman’s intimacy fades, she loses connection with to her confidence, magnetism, and power to affect change in the world.
But when you feel connected to your sensual self — fully alive as the woman you are
now — everything changes:
- You radiate clarity, warmth, and joy.
- You show up more powerfully in relationships.
- You feel lit up by your own presence
Lit from Within is a soulful program and community for women
who are ready to expand their relationship to pleasure, intimacy,
and personal power — in the bedroom and every part of their
lives.
This program wraps you in sacred tools, soulful support,
and a circle of kindred sisters who are daring to re-author their stories — not from habit,
but from their own conscious, radiant presence.
The Journey – The LIT Path
🔥 5 Aspects of Your Evolving Intimacy
🧠 Mental Being
Awakening how you meet your own mind
You begin to notice how your thoughts shape your sense of self — the habits of efforting, the inner critic, the stories you’ve mistaken for truth. Here we cultivate curiosity instead of correction, mindfulness instead of self-improvement, and the transforming freedom that comes from realizing you always have choice.
This realm isn’t about fixing your mind.
It’s about learning to inhabit it differently.
❤️ Emotional Being
Learning to welcome what you feel
Here you explore the landscape of emotion — not to control it, but to meet it with dignity. Reactivity softens. Fear becomes intelligible. Joy is allowed to land more fully. You begin discovering the quiet power of equanimity: the capacity to stay present with whatever is alive in you.
Nothing is too much here.
Everything belongs.
🌿 Physical Being
Returning to the wisdom of your body
This realm invites you back into sensation — breath, hormones, libido, fatigue, longing. You begin to sense the body not as something to manage, but as a living intelligence guiding you through menopause, intimacy, and pleasure in new and revealing ways.
You are not learning a technique.
You are remembering how to listen.
🔥 Energetic Being
Embodying radiance and inner authority
Confidence here is not a personality trait — it is a felt sense of aliveness. You explore presence, yin and yang dynamics, reverence practices, and what it means to inhabit power without force. Radiance becomes something you experience rather than perform.
This is where vitality stops being an idea
and starts being a frequency.
🌙 Spiritual Being
Sensing your place in the larger whole
In this realm, intimacy widens beyond the personal. You touch unity consciousness, relational ecology, cyclical living, and the sacred rhythms that weave you into life itself. Here you remember that your journey is not solitary — it is participatory.
You are no longer searching for meaning.
You are discovering that you already belong to it all.
The LIT From Within Community Experience
In this warm and wise community, you’ll receive:
- Monthly Live Workshops with intimate teachings on libido, connection, and embodied wisdom
- Monthly guided Embodiment Practices: breathwork, sexual Qigong, sensual movement, etc.
- Sacred Self-Care & Beauty Rituals to nourish your feminine energy
- Real Talk Sessions on the messiness and magic of evolving your life’s intimacy
- Meditations, Reflections, and PDFs to integrate what you learn
- Private Online Sisterhood (not on FB) for connection, celebration, and mutual upliftment
- Expert Guest Conversations on hormones, aging, and authentic sensuality
Meeting Desire in New Ways
We heal in connection.
We grow when we are witnessed.
We discover wisdom when we share the depths of our truth.
You’re not alone in this.
The truth is: your intimate life isn’t over — it’s waiting for you to meet it in a new and deeper way.
The you who’s been confused by the insecurities of change may need a guide to evolve — as your life becomes deeper, richer, and more satisfying than ever before.
Join Us
✨$42/month or $420/year – group calls without private coaching
💫$105 – optional additional hour of private coaching with Mary
$70 off Mary’s usual 1:1 coaching
The LIT From Within doors will open again on Tuesday, July 14! But they CLOSE at midnight the following Tuesday, July 21 at midnight.
Mark your calendars now. Because over this entire week of high summer days I’ll be sharing in emails, social posts, and live classes – a multitude of ways to receive my free offerings and examples of what is included in the LIT membership.
If you’re not already receiving my emails, click on my site here to sign up in the pop-up frame.
With the LIT From Within Membership there’s no long-term commitment. Women stay because of the monthly live touch-ins with me, the expert trainings, practices, and the abundant materials in the hub… plus the community of wise and vibrant women, there to support one another.
But if you ever feel you’re not fully receiving the value you desire, I hope you’ll reach out to me. I really want to know. And you’re completely free to cancel anytime — no guilt, no games.
🔥 Your Next Step
✨ Get a little appetizer of Lit From Within by joining me Tuesday, June 14 at 8pm Eastern for a one-hour sample session and peek into the LIT private hub. Message me at mary@diviningbeauty for the zoom link.
A few of the current LIT members will be there, too, so you won’t want to miss hearing why they love LIT.
I offer these sorts of practices in monthly Live Calls to members of the LIT community. I’m confident that you’ll find this one super helpful, no matter where you are in the menopausal journey.
We’ll explore a version of intimacy with yourself that may be far more real, radiant, and YOU than you may have thought was possible. ✨
Mary Campbell
As an intimacy coach and spiritual counselor, I have walked with hundreds of women and couples in retreats, courses, and in private counseling through the multi-faceted changes that begin with perimenopause.
Everything I teach comes from my own exploration…
a 20+ year marriage with 3 now-grown children, multiple certifications in tantra and women’s Taoist sexuality, training as an inter-spiritual counselor and ordained inter-faith minister, and mentor in Miranda Macpherson’s Living Grace Global Sangha, a non-dual international, online global community, offering life-changing guidance to open the heart and relax the ego.
After 20 years of private couples and women’s counseling I created Lit From Within to offer the kind of sacred space all women deserve — honoring their bodies’ wisdom, welcoming all the changes that may arise, and celebrating the new possibilities for an expanded intimate life that come with age and awareness.
This membership is about discovering how much more fully you can live, love, and connect in a community with others whose hearts are as expansive and open as yours.
FAQs
Q: Is this only for partnered women?
Not at all. Whether you’re single, married, exploring, or unsure — this is about your intimacy with yourself first and foremost.
Q: What if I’m long past the moment of my perimenopause?
Perfect. This space is for all stages — from the first signs of change to well beyond the transition and into cronedom.
Q: What if I feel disconnected from desire?
That’s one of the most common reasons women join. And you’re not broken. Together, we’ll gently explore a panoply of new ways to feel, connect, and awaken.
Q: How much time will this take?
Expect to spend between 45 and 60 minutes with the hub content each week, in masterclasses or recordings, Q&As, expert trainings and interviews, and exploring and sharing with women in the community.
Q. What if I feel shy about joining?
This is so natural. Intimacy is a personal and private part of life. But when you dip your toe into the sisterhood circle you may be surprised to discover that the other side of discomfort and vulnerability is connection and fun.
This is not a journey of becoming more —
it’s the sacred return to your wholeness and enlivenment,
where intimacy, confidence, and joy flow from your essence.